tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post4923691711156224187..comments2023-06-29T06:32:48.551-07:00Comments on The Journey of the Curious Servant: Carry OnCurious Servanthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11564580536911743558noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-3185465089858479952008-08-22T17:29:00.000-07:002008-08-22T17:29:00.000-07:00Will, I know this is hard but you can get on with ...Will, I know this is hard but you can get on with your life. You and only you can make a decision to either let this drag you down OR start fresh. The boys need a happy dad and you need a healing heart. <BR/><BR/> Congradulations on the good report for the boys. It is not easy raising kids, especially children with disabilities. They are the Lords special children and they need your love and support. I have a feeling that the three of you will be just fine....<BR/><BR/>Stay Strong!Lucy Sternhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15551301072676727397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-35991460294850341682008-08-22T13:24:00.000-07:002008-08-22T13:24:00.000-07:00a flybyhugging friend!!a flybyhugging friend!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-18764280219278484632008-08-22T08:12:00.000-07:002008-08-22T08:12:00.000-07:00the prayers for and over your boys....pray for her...the prayers for and over your boys....pray for her still....Gigihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05805941956462456865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-22783491016580165922008-08-22T07:47:00.000-07:002008-08-22T07:47:00.000-07:00Ask the boys to give you a huge hug for me. I lov...Ask the boys to give you a huge hug for me.<BR/><BR/> I love you my friend.<BR/><BR/> JustinJudas Hatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04365103842960526841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-86709018476091810922008-08-22T06:38:00.000-07:002008-08-22T06:38:00.000-07:00cs ~ Yes, I am back. For now any way. I have tru...cs ~ Yes, I am back. For now any way. I have truly missed my blog friends and sites. I haven't had a chance to read up on what's going on, but this told a lot of it. I'm glad the boys are doing well. I'm sorry to hear of the divorce. I can sympathize more than you know. My divorce has been final almost a year now. I never shared what I was going through. I never felt my blog was a place to share that. I'm sure I could have used the support. But all is well with me. I'll post more about it on my site soon. You are still the warm, compassionate, loving man I remember. I will keep you in my prayers and may God bless you each and every day. ~ Peach4evergapeachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12423320158834528685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-87717386976355591152008-08-22T05:18:00.000-07:002008-08-22T05:18:00.000-07:00I take a much more obnoxious approach to goodbyes....I take a much more obnoxious approach to goodbyes. "Buh-bye! Thanks for flying with us!" But either way, letting go is such healing. Congratulations! (Valkyrie congratulates you too - she is sleeping next to the computer, probably because it's warm.)Marvinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10651926840296438477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-75725614752549544202008-08-22T00:06:00.000-07:002008-08-22T00:06:00.000-07:00I am so delighted for you and for Brenda and for y...I am so delighted for you and for Brenda and for your boys, that they have been able to reach a stage in their lives that was not expected of them. Thanks to all the years of love and support and encouragement that your boys have received from you both, you now have two children who are not only achieving more than was expected, but who are probably more communicative, expressive and stable.<BR/><BR/>Will, you know my relationship problems by now so i know that you will know that i mean it when i say that you should indeed celebrate that you and Brenda have raised your fine young sons. <BR/><BR/>Sometimes that is all that we can truly say we an celebrate,our children, but I also believe that <I>you</I> can celebrate the many years you invested in and stood by Brenda, and she you, perhaps to a lesser extent...but trying in her own way all the same.<BR/><BR/>No matter what happens between the two of you henceforth, you have done well by your boys.As well either of you could do. <BR/><BR/>It's important to remember this, especially so now, when in realising that you can no longer be together, you will 'work together', to the extent that you are both able, for the wellbeing of your children.<BR/><BR/>Putting them first now, as ever, will help you get through this Will.<BR/><BR/>We do need more than to be parents, yes that is true, but for now, let parenting be balm to your troubled soul.<BR/><BR/>It won't take all the pain away, in fact it may at times increase it when you remember how you both have gone through so much with them....but the pain will lessen...and y'know what, you're probably even going to enjoy being the prime carer responsible for the boys, when it means there is less conflict in the home and the children are able to understand that these new arrangements aren't fleeting.<BR/><BR/>You are in my prayers. All of you are actually. Got to get ready for work today. So better get movin'!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-18542596646287407742008-08-21T20:59:00.000-07:002008-08-21T20:59:00.000-07:00Good the hear the boys are doing good.Can 't under...Good the hear the boys are doing good.<BR/><BR/>Can 't undersatand how Brenda feels guilty for her actions and yet not want to changs or make amends.<BR/><BR/>When i feel guilty about something I want to change , flip over.I feel so uncomfortable.<BR/><BR/>Oh Will, God is our ever present help.Amritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04887884977787790642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-47988421759751838182008-08-21T20:02:00.000-07:002008-08-21T20:02:00.000-07:00I am so moved, Will. I see such humility and tend...I am so moved, Will. I see such humility and tenderness within you.<BR/>All I can truly say is "You've reached new heights and I am so proud of you".<BR/>SSAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-86069785960392990422008-08-21T18:54:00.000-07:002008-08-21T18:54:00.000-07:00Whoaaaaaaa Will.....You're really a giving machine...Whoaaaaaaa Will.....<BR/>You're really a giving machine all the way around....<BR/>Your gifts will not go unnoticed....I'm overwhelmed with what you are doing amidst your pain.<BR/><BR/>Yes, have a celebration with your sons. <BR/><BR/>And I'm thankful for the healthy parts Brenda is giving. I know she really doesn't want to be like this - not in the deep parts of her heart. But....<BR/><BR/>I agree it's time to move on.<BR/><BR/>I still have this huge lump in my throat. You are loved and appreciated!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-20779293091329676412008-08-21T18:43:00.000-07:002008-08-21T18:43:00.000-07:00What amazing parents you have been. How wonderful ...What amazing parents you have been. How wonderful that God blessed them with you and you with them. There are so many broken things in our lives, and still incredible growth. It's a painful beauty.Bad Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04540577363786819292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-3300487378279318272008-08-21T18:32:00.000-07:002008-08-21T18:32:00.000-07:00I hope there is room within this grief to stop and...I hope there is room within this grief to stop and appreciate what you've (together) been able to accomplish with your boys. It's something to celebrate, and it would be a shame for all of you not to have the space to celebrate it.<BR/><BR/>Peace to you...Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12979627849688965995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-43878243262998201892008-08-21T17:56:00.001-07:002008-08-21T17:56:00.001-07:00Brenda asked me today to pray with her, pray over ...Brenda asked me today to pray with her, pray over her.<BR/><BR/>I took her to the Prayer Room.<BR/><BR/>I explained my faith to her. I explained my prayers to her. I prayed for her. I anointed her head with oil.<BR/><BR/>I told her that I hope she heals, that I will continue to pray for her...<BR/><BR/>...and I want the divorce as quickly as possible.Curious Servanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11564580536911743558noreply@blogger.com