tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post6030490775877910923..comments2023-06-29T06:32:48.551-07:00Comments on The Journey of the Curious Servant: GoneCurious Servanthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11564580536911743558noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-92116133802670800872007-11-22T07:18:00.000-08:002007-11-22T07:18:00.000-08:00Thinking of you and the boys.Thinking of you and the boys.Amritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04887884977787790642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-13698820465503910992007-11-21T19:58:00.000-08:002007-11-21T19:58:00.000-08:00Oh Will...I have no words, yet want you to know th...Oh Will...<BR/><BR/>I have no words, yet want you to know that I care about you and your boys and am continuing to pray...<BR/><BR/>I am so sorry for your pain.Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12979627849688965995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-19553359522641953342007-11-21T19:00:00.000-08:002007-11-21T19:00:00.000-08:00you're a good dad ... a good husband. stick to it....you're a good dad ... a good husband. stick to it. keep being honest with your kids.<BR/><BR/>it is the parent that stays and with whom the children are free to be themselves that they will blame. they will blame you. let them. they need to blame someone. if they blame brenda, they will fear loosing her. they know they can blame you and get angry with you and hate you and you will still love them. keep loving them. allow them to feel and experience all of their pain. suck it up when seemingly directed at you ... knowing it's just that you are safe, and she is not.<BR/><BR/>i am sooo sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-68669129091185352492007-11-21T18:54:00.000-08:002007-11-21T18:54:00.000-08:00Dear Will,You tried so hard, its clear that Brenda...Dear Will,<BR/>You tried so hard, its clear that Brenda 's heart was not in it.<BR/><BR/>Its hard for you ,how much tougher for the boys. I 'm so glaf Issac wants to speak to the Pastor.<BR/><BR/>Praying for all of you.<BR/>Did you go for the Wed. counselling?Amritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04887884977787790642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-73519182310129923532007-11-21T11:40:00.000-08:002007-11-21T11:40:00.000-08:00Isaac asked me to call Tim (our pastor). Isaac wan...Isaac asked me to call Tim (our pastor). Isaac wants to ask him some questions. He will be here soon to help my children.<BR/><BR/> I texted Brenda, telling her that Isaac wants to talk to her, but I uderstood if she wants to make a clean breakand didn't want to talk to him.<BR/><BR/> She called right away, asked to speak to Isaac.<BR/><BR/> She then told me she would be over in a few hours, that she wanted to talk to John first and that he had aldready gone to work.<BR/><BR/> Shit. What a mess.<BR/><BR/> If she asks to stay I will tell her "No, unless it is forever." No simply working to get the boys out on their own and then moving on. I want a marriage more than I want help in parenting these children.<BR/><BR/> What a mess.<BR/><BR/> We shall see what the end of the day brings.<BR/><BR/> Lord, oh Sweet Gracious Lord, have mercy...Curious Servanthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11564580536911743558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5276556180182068972.post-40852170492640896932007-11-21T10:08:00.000-08:002007-11-21T10:08:00.000-08:00I am so sorry for your pain...It is a "relief" you...I am so sorry for your pain...<BR/><BR/>It is a "relief" you said...<BR/>Deep down inside of you, <BR/>you knew this would happen. <BR/>(we your readers, knew too)<BR/><BR/>And now the "grieving"...<BR/>One day at a time.<BR/><BR/>Know that you are not alone...<BR/>many are with you in spirit,<BR/>and are praying for you, your boys, and Brenda.<BR/><BR/>Blessings.Cocohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06648699375453601098noreply@blogger.com